Self Love

The last week I started a journey to love myself in every aspect, it means that I started a process to love my body just the way it is, to hug my insecurities and flaws, to listen to my fears and to love me in every aspect.

Self love, is a process that have teach me how the society affect the way you see yourself in the mirror, it had teach me that there are insecurities that were teach to me when I was little.

In this journey, I know that it will be brigther days than others, but I will find my own definition of beauty, of strenght and to be genuine of who I am besides the others critics and expectations.

Is beautiful that I started this journey with the company of other women that are tired as me of feeling bad for not reaching the standards that our context put in ourselves, even when we do not asked for them.

So, here I am giving me the chance of make a deep chancg that will allow me to understand where I learned my sencurities and why I haved carry them through all this years.

This change of mindset is live changing and it will guide me in the path to discover my dreams and to create my own journey.

Love will win

I dream about the day that we not need to hide, the day that I will be genuine in every sphere of my life, the day that I will be with you no matter who or not matter why, the day in which our love will win over the anger that surround us, when our love will be bigger than all our fears.

I fall in love with you, even though it could be difficult. I fall in love with your soul and your flaws, cause I think they fit perfect with mine. I love to think that our chaos only calm down when we are together.

I know that every day that passed we are near from that, I hope and expect that love wins and overcome everything. The day when the people that we love support our love without any “but”, when we could be finally ourselves with everyone without telling any lies because of the fear of being judge.

Since then, I’m just writting about you, I’m writting about how proud I’m of us, because even when we feel weak we are still together.

So, I’m here fighting for you.

Be your own definition of beauty #women #empowerement #feminism

I’ts difficult to be a women where you learned to compare yourself with others where the world tell you how to act, dress, think etc. Where is difficult to determine wich of your thoughts are for your own or where learned in a society where we have to be the expectation of others.

Where is difficult to be completely yourself, where the critics are more abundant than the good comentaries. Where is difficult to be genuine with yourself, with your mission in life. Where is easy to lose yourself because of pretending be someone that is not you.

Where is easy to hide insecurities, overweight, flaws etc. Because is more difficult to seem weak, so you force youself to look always strong. But, is that ok?… Is it okay to hide yourself? or be the kind of women that the society expect?

Where the beauty standard are so hard that is difficult to ignore them, where women learned to be in shadows where they only become with brightness, where other women and you are not in a competition they are your complement, where you have create you own beauty standars and understand that the beauty of your heart and soul is more important that your weight.

Where we have to stand for ourselves, where all can change the world changing the way we see it. Where your weakness and flaws empowered yourself in many ways that you can not even imagine, where you can be completely yourself without feeling shame because you are exactly the kind of women that empowers others to be their own deffinition of beautiful.